Building Your Relationship with Your Business

Today I want to talk about the relationship you have with your business, is it a healthy relationship, or do you suffer from one of the following issues?

Do you have a love-hate relationship?

One day you’re in love with your business, the next you hate it and wonder why you started it. We’ve all been there. An exercise you could try would be to brainstorm what you like and what you dislike about your biz. Then, come up with ways to minimize the parts you don’t like. It could mean hiring some outside help, or getting rid of a service or product that causes you more grief then profit.

Are you co-dependant?

You are always thinking that you should be working when you’re away from your computer.  You get distracted when you’re spending time with your family, wondering if you have new email or thinking of what you want your next marketing promotion to look like.

If you can’t think of anything else you’d rather do then work, it may be time to take up a new hobby or join a book club. Make an effort to talk to people as people, and not just for the sake of business networking.

Do you cheat on your business?

If you want to be efficient at running your business, you have to commit to working hours. Do you spend time away from work when you know you should be working?

How’s your accounting? Are you borrowing money from your business account to get your hair done (and trying to justify it as a business expense)?

If you create content or material for your business, how much of it is 100% original and how much is “borrowed” or inspired from your competitors?

Take a look at your habits. If you don’t feel like you’re getting much out of the business, perhaps you aren’t as committed to succeeding as you should be.

Are you Growing Apart/Have you lost the spark?

If every day you dread working in your business, it’s time you take a look back at the reasons why you started it in the first place. Pull out that dusty business plan. What did you write as a mission statement? Did you set goals for the business? How far have you come to reaching those goals?

It may be time to re-assess your plan and make new goals. Re-word your mission if it is no longer meaningful to you. What? No business plan? Well, it’s high time you put in writing why it is you’re in business. This exercise could very well get you out of the rut.

Are you jealous of your business?

How can you be jealous of your business? Look at your relationships. Are you closer to your clients and talk to them more often then your friends? Maybe you’ve built a strictly business persona for yourself and are afraid to let your real personality shine through? Or, you could be at a loss to converse about anything other than business.

Consider what aspects of your personality make you good at what you do, and then think about how those same aspects make you an interesting person outside of work. What other traits do you possess that don’t necessarily apply to your job? Give yourself credit for having a broad range of gifts and talents in addition to your great business skills.

Like they say in couples counseling – being open and honest about the problems in the relationship is the only way to overcome the hurdles and strengthen the bond. What better time than Valentine’s Day to take your relationship with your business to the next level?

I just learned, thanks to Danielle Miller’s “The Dish” Newsletter that this is National “Take Back Your Time Week”.

What a great idea and perfect timing too. In fact, it just so happens I have been busy scheduling activities and making plans to do things that are fun. I’ve learned if you don’t actually schedule yourself to participate in activities just for fun, chances are you’ll either forget about the event or activity you wanted to do, or when the time comes you will make excuses to yourself why you shouldn’t go.

There’s a few more tips I’ve come across that can help you take back your time:

• Don’t get stuck watching TV – if you have a show you want to watch, watch it, but make an effort to turn off the TV when it’s over and do something more enjoyable
• Give yourself a scheduled break from work – whether its housework or business give your self at least an hour where you will not work and take time for your self – don’t answer the phone, check your work email, or do the dishes and laundry. Instead catch up with friends on Facebook, send email or write letters, or just spend a little time on a hobby.
• Plan your meals in advance – or better yet, prepare them in advance. How many hours have you spent staring into the refrigerator wondering what to make for dinner or making a last minute run to the grocery store?
• Make and use lists effectively – when something you need to do pops into your head, jot it down but be sure you also not when you will have time to do it. For instance if there is a deadline, plan to do it before the last minute – and mark it out once it’s completed. You’ll be surprised at how much you can get done this way, and soon you’ll be adding those planned fun activities to the list!

If you have habits that you use to make more time for yourself, please send us a note and let us know!